彩虹性别学会发起嘉奖男人行动

彩虹性别学会发起嘉奖男人行动
纪念国际妇女节一百零一周年

今年是国际妇女节101周年纪念，为嘉奖以实际行动促进两性平等的男人，彩虹性别学会今日发起一项全民行动，呼吁社会大众自2012年3月8日开始，改称“妇女节”为“男人戒严日”。希望每年3月8日这一天，让男人留在家里不出街，只有符合以下条件的男人得以“解严”出街，并鼓励社会大众嘉奖以实际行动促进性别平等的男人：
 　

1.    爱护姐妹的男同志
2.    每年3月8日穿裙子上街的男人
3.    女主外，男主内的温柔家庭主夫
4.    戴着绿色帽子上街的男人
5.    过去十年曾经积极关心、参与妇女运动的男人
6.    书写超过五篇性别平等议题相关文章的男人
7.    一年内做爱次数百分之八十皆让女伴达到高潮的男人
8.    做爱前经常跳脱衣舞取悦女伴的男人
9.    一年内曾经连续十天在家照顾孩子的男人
10.    一年内曾经有六个月或以上时间定时、主动做家务、煮饭做菜、为家人洗衣服的男人
11.    一年内曾经为女伴或者妈妈购买三次或以上卫生棉的男人
12.    做爱时，不管女伴是否提出要求或是否就绪，都自行准备好保险套的男人

符合第1至第3条件者，请社会大众自印“性别多元创意奖状”一张表扬他们；符合第4条件者，值得奖赏保险套一个和紫罗兰一朵；符合第5、6条件者，值得嘉奖Adam Jukes的《为何男人憎恨女人》一本；符合第7至11项条件者，值得颁予“为全民之母服务”勋章一枚；符合第12条件者，值得颁发“忠贞爱女伴”奖牌一个。

彩虹性别学会真诚地邀请男男、女女、不男不女、亦男亦女们一起来加入我们“嘉奖男人”的行动。欢迎您到我们的部落格“彩虹性别起点站”下载并列印“性别多元化创意奖状”范本。

祝　男人戒严日快乐！

彩虹性别学会　敬邀
2012年3月8日


恶搞行动理念说明：

社会传统习惯检视女人的家庭贡献、观看女人的身体以及检视她们在各方各面的“责任”，但却鲜少询问或尊重女人所要，在在反映两性之间的不平等关系。

此次彩虹性别学会的妇女节恶搞行动，主要以创意方式，激发新的性别角色想像，以打破传统的性别象征意义，邀请社会各界进入新的性别想像和主体位置，学习对男人提出要求、学习观看和凝视男体、检视男人在家庭、照顾工作、养育小孩、维护女人的健康、维护女人的情欲品质所扮演的角色。

彩虹性别学会也意识到，一些保守的女人，其实也是父权制度的执行者，是维持性别不平等的代言人，我们意在争取进步的、有反思能力的男人和女人们，加入我们的行列，一起改善现有的性别不平等处境。

性别文化乃两性互动所形成，单一性别的参与改变力量有所不足。经过此次恶搞行动，如果你/妳发现自己或自己身边的人平常关怀性别平等不足，那么彩虹性别学会邀请您出席318紫色集会，以实际行动支持性别平等，莫让308后的政治高潮，淹没性别平等运动高潮，私领域的民主和女人的情欲品质，跟公领域的民主及国家治理品质一样重要。彩虹性别学会深信，当私领域的各种性别平等诉求获得重视、实现民主时，公共领域的互动和民主品质自然会随之提升。

紫色集会详情
发起单位：WANITA SUARA PERUBAHAN
集会日期：2012年3月18日（星期天）
集会时间：下午两点正
集会地点：PJ区的Padang Astaka
集合地点：PJ 14区Taman Jaya或者PJ 10区的Masjid Bulat

Rainbow Gender Society Initiates “Awarding Men Campaign” To Commemorate 101th Anniversary of International Women’s Day

8 March 2012

2012 marks the 101th anniversary of International Women’s Day. Rainbow Gender Society (RGS) invites everyone to participate in a campaign to praise males who take practical action to promote gender equality on this meaningful day. However, instead of calling March 8 “women’s day”, we urge everyone to call it “men’s prison day” from today onwards. And on this “men’s prison day”, men shall not be allowed to leave home on March 8 each year (that’s why RGS calls it “men’s prison day”) except those with the following qualifications:

1.         Gays who respect young and old ladies

2.         Man wearing skirts to walk on the street on March 8

3.         Man who has been a gentle house husband to a bread winning wife

4.         Man who dares to wear green hat to walk on the street

5.         Man who actively participates in promoting gender equality for ten years or more

6.         Man who has written at least five articles on gender equality issues

7.         Man that is able to make his female partner reaches orgasm as many times as he does whenever having sex

8.         Man who loves to dance like a stripper in front of his female sexual partner to make her happy

9.         Man who takes care of his children for at least a ten-day period in the past twelve months

10.       Man who takes the initiative to do house cleaning, cooking and laundry on time for at least six months in the past twelve months

11.       Man who buys sanitary napkins for his female companion or mother for at least three times in the past twelve months

12.       Man who always prepares a condom whenever making love with females

RGS sincerely invites the society to award men who have the above qualities or qualifications with a bouquet of flowers, other than allowing them to leave home on March 8. That is how men and ladies could participate in the RGS “Awarding Men Campaign”.

“Happy men’s prison day” to everyone!

Real ideas behind the “Awarding Men Campaign” hoax:

It has long been a tradition of the society to examine women’s contribution to the family, take women’s care job for granted, enjoy gazing female’s body etc, without asking or respecting what the women really want. This reflects the fact of inequality between men and women in the private sphere. 

 “Awarding Men Campaign” and “men’s prison day” are merely hoax created by the RGS to stimulate the society to reflect on the existing gender roles between males and females. It is an attempt by the RGS to break the traditional symbolic roles between males and females by inviting everyone to take up the subjective position in learning to gaze male bodies, to require men to participate more in care jobs and in maintaining a mutually joyful intimate/sexual relations. 

RGS is aware that conservative women are as bad as conservative men in keeping inequality between the two sexes. Given this fact in mind, the objective of the hoax is to invite progressive males and females with reflective mind to work together to improve the current condition of gender inequality.

RGS views positively the increasing political awareness of Malaysians after the 12th general election in March 8 2008. However, RGS also sees gender equality awareness as equally important as political awareness in contributing to a country’s democratization. Because RGS believes that democratization of intimate relations between males and females in the private sphere and democratization of the larger social and political environment could mutually constitute one another. RGS thus urges everyone to visualize the importance of gender equality in private sphere while participating in the public sphere to democratize the country. RGS thus invites everyone to participate in the Purple Gathering (or Wanita Suara Perubahan) at Padang Astaka, PJ, on March 18, that aims to bring democratic changes in both private and public spheres.